From The Dungeon To The Arena

Mar 12, 2020

Truth moment, your comfort zone is holding you back from going after your dreams.  It’s easier to stay in your comfort zone where you know everything is safe.  But that’s only going to keep you stuck where you currently are.  No dreams or goals are ever achieved in your comfort zone.


Comfort Zone

Your comfort zone is often warm and cozy.  Like your bed when you first wake up in the morning.  It’s time to shift your belief around your comfort zone.  Realize that your comfort zone is not a place where you desire to stay.  In order to make that shift you need to change your comfort zone from being a place that you find comfortable and enjoy to one that you despise and cannot wait to get out of.



Envision this, you’re back in the time of the gladiators.  Imagine a dungeon that is full of rats and spiders.  It is dark, cold, and damp.  There are no windows and it feels almost as if the walls...

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Five Steps To Change Negative Thoughts

Mar 05, 2020

Negative thoughts are a bad habit.  It’s time to replace that bad habit with a new, positive one.  Learn these five steps to help you change your negative thoughts.


 1. Watch Your Thoughts

The first step to change your negative thoughts is to notice when it happens.  Sometimes you don’t realize you’re speaking negatively to yourself.  If you’re a positive person, who is usually in a good mood, then it can be difficult to admit when you’re being negative, mean, or hard on yourself.  Often negative thoughts can be just a quick little voice that you barely notice.  For example, you may say you’re so stupid when you make a simple mistake.  Even though these negative thoughts may be small and easily dismissed, they are still very influential.  Start by watching your thoughts.


2. Comparison

Comparing yourself to someone else is the easiest way to have negative thoughts.  Social media...

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How To Make The Unfamiliar Familiar

Feb 27, 2020

It’s difficult to take action on your goals when you’re afraid, petrified, and full of self doubt.  You may be telling yourself that this goal is impossible or envision it being a complete and utter failure if you even give it a try.  This is only holding you back.


The truth is, you are in control of two things.  The first being the thoughts you say to yourself and the second being what you visualize in your mind.  If you’re stating all the negative thoughts and believing all the worst case scenario images, then you will never achieve anything in life.  You will remain in your comfort zone of what is familiar.


It is human nature to be in our comfort zone of what is familiar and steer clear of what is unfamiliar and outside of our comfort zone.  However, you can expand your comfort zone and make what is unfamiliar familiar.



At one point you didn’t know how to ride a bike, you disliked broccoli, okay...

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8 Areas To Live Your Best Life

Feb 20, 2020

Here are eight areas you can focus on in order to help you live your best life!  Take the time to hand write your answers by putting pen to paper.  Go with the first thing that comes to mind and start writing.


1. Goals

Start by setting some goals.  Think about what you want to accomplish in your life.  These could be things that you want to do, places you want to visit, people you want to meet, etc.  Consider what would make you feel accomplished at the end of this year.  Write down some solid goals to work towards.


2. Charity

When you’re thinking about living your best life, it’s important to consider what difference you want to make.  Not only in your life but in the lives of others.  This could be giving back in the form of a monetary donation, time, energy, or providing someone with a resource to help out, etc.  Think about what things you would need to do in order to make a difference.  This in turnwill...

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8 Tips To Achieve Your Goal Faster

Feb 13, 2020

Use these eight tips to help you achieve your goal faster.


1. Get Clear

The first step to achieve your goal faster is to get absolutely clear on what your goal is.  If you have no idea what you’re trying to achieve then it will be hard to know what direction you should be moving toward.  An unclear goal is impossible to obtain.  Worse, an unclear goal will leave you stuck where you currently are.  Write your goal down on paper.  Be specific and clear on what you want to achieve. 


2. Be Consistent

Create a game plan that will help you achieve your goal and be consistent with it.  If you’re working toward your goal every other week you’ll see limited progress.  However, if you’re consistently working on your goal every day you’ll achieve it much faster.  Do at least one thing every day that will help you achieve your goal.  Schedule time first thing in the morning to ensure that it gets...

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Five Areas To Focus On For More Happiness In Life

Feb 06, 2020

In order to achieve more happiness in life, take a look at the following five areas.  Commit to setting a goal in each area so that you can life a happier life.


1. Self Care

The first area to look at is self care.  Often you take care of everyone else but yourself.  It is said that you need to put your own oxygen mask on first before you can help others.  Make yourself a priority.  Schedule time for self care.  It is essential for your overall health and happiness in life.  Don’t let it fall to the wayside.  Focus on taking care of you.  Set a goal to do at least one self care activity each week.  When you feel good about yourself, you’ll be happier in life.


2. Relationships

Family and friends are incredibly important to living a happier life.  Having conversations and being around others that make you laugh allows you to thoroughly enjoy life.  The relationships you foster are ones that...

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Stop Failing And Start Learning

Jan 30, 2020

The fear of failure often hinders you from going after your dreams.  This fear stems from the lessons you learned at a young age.  In school you are taught that you must have the right answer in order to succeed.  Today, now that you’re grown and in the real world, it’s difficult to take action on your dreams because you’re afraid that you might have the wrong answer.  You fear that you’re doing it wrong or making an incorrect choice that will ultimately lead to failure.


Failures commonly leave you faced with ridicule, anger, frustration, and yelling that you didn’t do something right.  The truth is, you made a mistake and now it feels like the whole world is coming to an end.  Even the littlest of errors make it seem like you’re incapable of doing a great job.  This only reinforces the belief that you’re not competent and should just quit now.


The fear of getting it wrong and that it’s...

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How To Overcome Fear And Achieve Your Goals This Year

Jan 23, 2020

A new year means new goals and unlimited possibilities.  However, one of the biggest things that can hold you back from going after your goals is fear.  The fear of the unknown, fear of failure, fear of doing it wrong, and most of all, fear of what other people will think.  How you overcome these fears isn’t an easy feat.  But, you can overcome your fears with these three steps to achieve your goals this year.


1. Create New Beliefs

The first step to overcoming your fears and achieving your goals is to realize that fear isn’t real.  Fear is made up in your mind.  It is said that fear is false evidence appearing real.  Take a look at the fears that you have and create new beliefs around them.  Your new beliefs could include, life is full of surprise and the unknown.  Or even, there is no failure but rather only lessons to learn.  Change your mindset around fear.  Eliminate the beliefs that are holding you back...

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Four Step Process To Conquer Your Fear

Jan 16, 2020

Your fears are holding you back from living your dream life.  You have created your own limiting beliefs that are only keeping you stuck in your current situation.  This simple four step process will help you conquer your fears and change your beliefs so that you’ll start taking action on your biggest goals.


1. Pick A Fear

The first step is to simply choose one fear that’s holding you back from going after your dreams.  Then think about what you believe to be true about that fear.  In other words, name the limiting belief that is keeping you stuck.  This could be that you’re not good enough, you’re inexperienced, who are you to be doing this, you’re not ready, now’s not the right time, you need more information, you’re too young/old, etc.  Dig deep and think about what fear is limiting your ability to truly live life to the fullest.


**Please note that you’ll be able to go back through this...

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Overcome Negative Self Talk With Song

Jan 09, 2020

The words you speak to yourself are incredibly powerful.  If you were to stop and listen to words that you’re telling yourself, what would you hear?  You may be surprised to hear a lot of negative self talk.


You are your own worst critic.  The negative self talk you speak about yourself is awful and it happens every day.  But, you would never let someone else talk to you like that.  Furthermore, you would never speak those negative words about someone else.  Yet, the negative self talk you tell yourself is somehow acceptable.  This negative self talk can keep you stuck from going after your goals and what you want in life.  It’s time to change that.


In order to stop the negative self talk you need to change how you speak to yourself.  One simple way is to choose an inspiring song.  This will be your go to song that will empower you, motivate you, bring you more positivity, and keep you pushing forward toward...

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