One of the main reasons you’re not taking action towards your goals is because you don’t think you feel ready. The truth is, you’ll never be fully ready. You just have to start now which is often easier said than done. You get in your head where your fears, worries, and doubts take over. You start to believe that you can’t achieve your goals because you’re just not quite ready. Instead of waiting for the perfect path, feeling like you know all the steps, you must learn to take the leap to achieve your goals!
Consider how you are holding yourself back from taking action to achieve your goals and why. Maybe you’re wanting to feel ready or have the perfect path because you think if you do then it will be less challenging, difficult, embarrassing, and undoubtedly lead you to easier success. Unfortunately, that time is never going to come and your goals will remain unachieved if you simply continue waiting. You’re never going to feel one hundred percent ready or have the exact perfect road map to achieve your goals. It’s time to take that giant leap to achieve your goals, even if you don’t feel ready.
Picture standing at the top of a diving board. Your hands may be sweating, your heart may be racing, you’re afraid, unsure, and scared. You’re so high up in the air. This is requiring you to do something you’re not use to. You don’t like it. You can either stand there forever peering over the edge, climb back down to safer ground, or take the leap and see what happens. John Burroughs said to leap and the net will appear. Trust that it will. Stop hesitating and take that giant leap. Your goals and dream life are waiting.
So much of taking action before your ready requires a significant amount of trust in the things you cannot control or predict the outcome of. Trust that you’ll either receive what you want or something better. The key is to just keep taking action and trust that things will work out, even when you feel unsure. It’s trusting that with each step you take the next step will be revealed to you, even if the rest of the path is really foggy and unclear. Trust that your action steps will get you to where you need to go.
Even if you think you have the ideal path laid out in front of you, life may still life and veer you in a different direction. Achieving your goals is not a perfect straight line. It’s full of ups, downs, twists, and turns that are unforeseen. This is what keeps life interesting. Even if you think you have the ideal path laid out in front of you, life may still detour you in a different direction. Life will always throw you curve balls and change what you think would have been the perfect path.
Learn to let go of the need to feel ready. Acknowledge that there is no perfect path and trust that it will work out if you just continue to take action towards your goals. Your goals are not achieved in one day. It takes time, dedication, patience, and perseverance. Stop waiting and just take the leap to achieve your goals. No matter how scary the unknown feels, trust that it will turn out better than you ever imagined.
Step 1. Identify Where You’re Hesitating
Ask yourself, what goal or action have you been delaying because you don’t feel ready yet?
Write down:
Awareness is the first step.
Step 2. Decide On Your Leap
Your leap does not need to be huge. It just needs to move you forward.
Choose ONE action you’ve been avoiding, such as:
Then, commit to taking that action within the next 24 hours.
Step 3. Rewrite The Story
Take the fear based thought that's been keeping you stuck and rewrite it into a trust based belief.
For example:
Step 4. Gather Proof You Can Handle Difficult Things
Make a list of past moments where:
This reminds your brain that you are capable of handling the unknown.
Step 5. Celebrate Courage, Not Perfection
At the end of the week, reflect on:
Your goal is not perfect execution.
Your goal is becoming someone willing to take the leap anyway.
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